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My Heart Breaks.

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MY HEART BREAKS…. My heartbreaks when I hear some upsetting questions and painful assumptions. Especially from the opposite sex..... A good example is when a man tells you his wife stopped giving him attention when the babies started coming… An excerpt from Gary Chapman’s ‘The Five Love Languages’ says :   “In my first marriage, we had three or four good years before the baby came. After the baby was born, I felt like she gave her attention to the baby and I no longer mattered. It was as if her goal in life was to have a baby and after the baby, she no longer needed me” Why on earth would a man ever think this? Why would a man think he is in competition with his own child? It is just a natural phenomenon for a mother to care and nurse her new born…in fact, even any of her offspring’s for all of eternity, perhaps if a man could conceive and carry a child for nine months they would understand;  ‘A child whom you gave life to, is your responsibility f...