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If You Were A Tree.

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Have you ever wondered what your story would be if you were a tree? What type of tree exactly, would you have wanted to be? Would it be the tree with your favourite type of fruit? Or the tree that’s got strong trunks, with enough branches to give shades. Or perhaps that kind of tree that is so pretty with flowers that can put smiles on worrisome faces. Well, for a very long time, this thoughts had ran formula one races in my mind, it just always presented itself and It wasn’t until I shared it with a friend one night, he strongly advised I shared it with others. So, if you have never asked yourself this question, I am glad you are reading this article and if you have ever had this thought or asked yourself, then I am happy to say, you are one of the awesome deep thinkers the creators blessed the world with. A trees’ growth cycle can be amazing to track, from its leaves shedding, to its re-flowering in spring, its posterity features, its very existence ben...

My Heart Breaks.

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MY HEART BREAKS…. My heartbreaks when I hear some upsetting questions and painful assumptions. Especially from the opposite sex..... A good example is when a man tells you his wife stopped giving him attention when the babies started coming… An excerpt from Gary Chapman’s ‘The Five Love Languages’ says :   “In my first marriage, we had three or four good years before the baby came. After the baby was born, I felt like she gave her attention to the baby and I no longer mattered. It was as if her goal in life was to have a baby and after the baby, she no longer needed me” Why on earth would a man ever think this? Why would a man think he is in competition with his own child? It is just a natural phenomenon for a mother to care and nurse her new born…in fact, even any of her offspring’s for all of eternity, perhaps if a man could conceive and carry a child for nine months they would understand;  ‘A child whom you gave life to, is your responsibility f...

Value.

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VALUE Todays Thought. What’s the difference between Paper plates and Fine china? VALUE! Paper plates are used once and then thrown into the trash, but fine china’s kept for generations and treated with the utmost care. We place a higher value on Fine china’s than we do on our paper goods. When we use other people or take advantage of them, we’re treating them like paper plates- Worthless and disposable. But the bible tells us that all people have lasting value-so much more than fine china. Each person is a special creation with a special purpose and deserves to be treated with the utmost respect and care. Plan: Do you have the courage to ask your closest friends to hold you accountable when you take advantage of others instead of valuing them? Culled from my book of promises (Student edition)

Dream Big.... Its attainable.

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Dream it, Become it, Live it..... Trust me, you are unstoppable, if only you knew the power you wield inside of you. Just believe in yourself!

GAME OF THRONES... SEASON FINALE: WINDS OF WINTER.

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This Sunday's  Game of Thrones  season finale will reportedly be the longest episode since the series' inception — which definitely means it's going to be covering a lot of ground.  **Potential spoilers below!** Titled "The Winds of Winter," the 69-minute episode is guaranteed to be very intense, and newly-released teaser photos from HBO are only added proof. Based on the promotional shots from the season finale, not only will fans get to find out what happens to Loras Tyrell and Cersei Lannister, but they'll also get to find out more about Bran's newly revealed powers and maybe see Davos get angry about Princess Shireen's death.  Check out the images for yourself below, and the sixth season  Game of Thrones  finale on Sunday at 9 p.m. on HBO. CC:Gina Cosmopolitan Mag.

Finding the balance.

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There is beauty in predictability but we are usually blinded by the thrill of adventure. It is why we don't last with commitments. Once it feels boring, we let go; looking for the next adventure. I am not saying you should settle for a boring life but it is important that you learn a measure of balance for your life. You need predictability, stability, to have who you can trust and be sure that with them, you are safe from the hounds outside. You also need adventure, the nee d to feel alive. You need those hounds outside to tear you apart sometimes. For one, your skin becomes tougher and it makes you value greatly what you've got going inside. Find balance. Cherish all your experiences - the seemingly boring ones and the exciting ones. It is what they mean when they say that you are living your life to the fullest. - O'busola Odunnuga.